Learn to create healthy boundaries while protecting your children from your toxic ex
I Survived the System That Almost Broke Me. Now I Help Moms
The Courts Protected My Narcissistic Ex Until I Understood His Game
I'm Dr. Samantha Redd, a high-conflict divorce coach. I'm also a survivor who learned the hard way that the family court system protects manipulators better than it protects children.
After my ex turned our divorce into a war, gaslighting me in front of judges and using our daughter as leverage, I realized something: Traditional co-parenting advice doesn't work when you are dealing with a narcissist. That's when you need parallel parenting strategies and documentation techniques that hold up up in family court.
So I stopped following generic advice and started studying the game he was playing.
I learned:
- How to document conversations so they'd hold up in court.
- How to respond strategically instead of emotionally.
- How to negotiate without giving ground or looking "difficult."
- How to protect my daughter while protecting my case.
And once I cracked his playbook, everything changed.
Why I Do This Work
Because when I was drowning in legal fees, replaying courtroom disasters at 3 AM, and wondering if I'd lose custody because I "couldn't prove" what he was doing, I had no one who understood.
Therapists told me to "focus on my healing."
Lawyers told me to "stay calm and document everything."
Friends told me to "just co-parent better."
None of them understood what I was really up against.
That's why I became a certified high-conflict divorce coach, to give you the tactical playbook your ex doesn't want you to have.
Book A 1:1 Strategy Session. Let's decode your ex's tactics together.
Get My Free Communication Guide. Start protecting yourself today.
Questions? Call/Text: (571) 701-3387
You don't have to do this alone anymore.
Who I Help
I work with moms who are:
- Constantly manipulated by their ex
- Facing a custody battle with a narcissist or high-conflict personality
- Tired of the "just communicate better" advice that doesn't work
- Ready to stop reacting and start controlling the narrative
- Willing to do the work to protect their kids and themselves
The Truth About High-Conflict Divorce
The family court system wasn't designed for what you're facing. It assumes both parents are reasonable. It rewards whoever looks calmer, more prepared, and more "cooperative."
Your ex knows this. That's why he's so good at playing the victim.
But once YOU understand the game, you can play it better than he can.
Let's Build Your Battle Plan
Book A 1:1 Strategy Session. Let's decode your ex's tactics together.
Get My Free Communication Guide. Start protecting yourself today.
Questions? Call/Text: (571) 701-3387
You don't have to do this alone anymore.
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