High Conflict Divorce Coach-decoding child custody, communications, and co-parenting
Be free of the fear of doing something wrong and losing your kids during your custody fight.
Gain clarity on what judges value most in child custody.
Parent with peace of mind knowing you are doing your best to teach your kids their truth, connect with them through trust, and protect them from dangerous mind games.
Co-parent without fear of court reprisal from your ex.
Learn the language of the courts to know what to look for in writing your iron-clad custody agreement.
Take back your life and reduce anxiety when interacting with your toxic ex.
Learn how to protect yourself spiritually when interacting with your ex's negative energy.
Women in our position know why we wear a mask. Our exes would do anything to silence us, I refuse!
I help moms who are domestic violence survivors understand child custody, communicating and co-parenting with a toxic parent, how to document for court, how to parent when your child is getting abused by the other parent, and identify the best self care practices so you can find the calm though the triggers.
Do you cringe when you get a text from your ex? Do you even know how to respond?
Let's work on a strategy that you can take to your legal team. Together we will talk about paperwork and documenting.
I will work with you to be an effective co-parent for your children and your ex. We will talk about what to communicate and how to communicate it.
Through games and written exercises, I will help you form deep and meaningful connections with your children.
I am a big fan of shadow work and using it to discover why we fall into these situations and how we can be our best selves.
You got this!
Our children depend on us no matter how many obstacles the narcissist throws in our path. The love bombing, the gas-lighting, the manic fits where he rages at us in text or email, the financial, emotional, and physical toll of separating from a narcissist is unimaginable. Despite the help from friends and family, no one gets what you're going through. You begin to second guess everything you do, believing there is something wrong.
I help people to navigate the court system. I help them to think strategically and to choose their battles wisely. I help them learn the importance of communicating in a court-approved manner and, I help them protect their children, which looks different for every person. Most importantly, together, we can work to bring your hope back and find peace with the process that you are now having to endure by creating a strategy for court, for your children, and your life.
I've been living my own worst nightmare for 10 years. I get it, and I get you. I have been in and out of court for child support and custody modifications. I've learned firsthand the hard way what works and what doesn't. As a woman, minority, and single mom, I've seen the disparity that exists for us.
If you ever feel your life is in danger please, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. Please, never ever question what your gut is telling you. If you think your life is in danger, call them anytime.
Deep breaths, you got this mama,
Samantha Redd, PhD
P.S. One little-known fact is that a High Conflict Divorce Coach can help save you thousands in attorney's fees! You can organize your documentation to tell a clear, concise story about your case, don't leave it to the attorney to have to sift through your pile to find out what's important to you!
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Hello mama, how can I help you?...Big hugs to you, you've come this far let me help you go further.
Learn how to protect yourself and your kids from threats of court, claims of alienation, and gain confidence in how and what you communicate with your ex.