Learn to create healthy boundaries while protecting your children from your toxic ex
Learn to create healthy boundaries while protecting your children from your toxic ex
You need a plan
As a high-conflict divorce strategist, I help moms document the chaos, turn his manipulation into evidence, and protect their kids while reclaiming lost boundaries.
I'm Dr. Samantha Redd, a high-conflict divorce coach. I'm also a survivor who learned the hard way that the family court system protects manipulators better than it protects children.
After my ex turned our divorce into a war, gaslighting me in front of judges and using our daughter as leverage, I realized something: Traditional co-parenting advice doesn't work when you are dealing with a narcissist. That's when you need parallel parenting strategies and documentation techniques that hold up in family court.
So I stopped following generic advice and started studying the game he was playing.
And once I cracked his playbook, everything changed. Read more...

You know that knot in your stomach when his name pops up? That's not just anxiety, it's your body warning you he's playing a different game.
While you're trying to co-parent peacefully, he's:
The courts don't see the manipulation. They see who stayed calm.
And if you don't learn his playbook? You'll keep losing the battles you should be winning.

After my own high-conflict divorce, I learned the court system protects manipulators. So I became a certified high-conflict divorce coach to teach moms how to:
Featured in Passion Vista and Brianz Magazine / Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach / Based in Fairfax, VA (Serving All States)

Moms in our position know what it's like to parent when everything feels hopeless, yet we keep going
1-Hour Strategy Session - $127
In this session, we'll:
Plus, you get:
A detailed guide as a free bonus
100% Money-Back Guarantee: If you don't get at least one game-changing strategy, I'll refund you completely. Zero risk.
"Your mediation strategy worked. I was able to keep what really mattered while he fought me on my "red herring"."
"I can breathe easier knowing what I should and shouldn't be doing before my big court case!"
Do you cringe when you get a text from your ex? Do you even know how to respond?
Let's work on a strategy that you can take to your legal team. Together we will talk about paperwork and documenting.
I will work with you to be an effective co-parent for your children and your ex. We will talk about what to communicate and how to communicate it.
Through games and written exercises, I will help you form deep and meaningful connections with your children.
I am a big fan of shadow work and using it to discover why we fall into these situations and how we can be our best selves.
You got this!
The courts reward the parent who looks calm and prepared. Are you that parent?
While you're trying to figure this out alone, he's:
The best time to prepare was before the divorce.
The second-best time is NOW. The fact is that the moms that get support earlier in the process get the best outcomes.
P.S. One little-known fact: A high conflict divorce coach can help save you thousands in attorney's fees by helping you organize documentation and avoid costly mistakes. The $127 you invest today could save you $5000+ in billable hours.

Decoding the system for you with child custody, communications, parenting and co-parenting, and uncovering your best self!
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